TIPS FOR INCORPORATING HUMOUR IN A SPEECH
HUMOUROUS SPEECH - HOW AND WHY?
Have you wondered how to use humour effectively in
speeches? What gets a laugh? What doesn't, and why?
It's tricky!
Most of us, myself included, want to effortlessly
entertain the audience. We know and appreciates the gifts humour brings. Adding
humour is the best communication skills one can have in their arsenal. Humour
can help you to get the audience warm up to you. It is not only the best
communication skill but also a very important skill for leadership. Imagine a
leader warming you up with a humour before going to present his views and
another who goes straight to the topic. Probably you would listen to the first
one.
But what happens if carefully polished laugh line
isn't caught up, and falls to the floor, shriveling? What if they fold their
arms, raise their eyebrows, and look away, get offended? Let me take you
through the crash course I learned while trying to learn the tricks of writing
and delivering humorous speech.
TIPS FOR HUMOUROUS SPEECH
· Know your audience – The basics of any speech are knowing the audience,
for humour that is the fundamental one. For example, you can humorously present
by exaggerating one of your office procedure to your colleagues, but same would
probably not work the audience comprising your family members
· Understanding the principal purpose of your speech – Unless you are a
stand-up comedian, the main purpose of your speech is probably to give your
message in an entertaining way, which will include humour. If you are not one
of the most witty/humorous person around like me, it’s better to have a message
in your speech and use humour as a tool to put it through.
·
Understanding humour - Humour comes in many shapes
and sizes from small smirks to full blown laughter. To use it effectively it
helps to have an understanding of its varieties. This enables you to choose
what will suit your audience, your speech topic, and the occasions. You are
going for an official meeting try to use humour which can have smiles coming
out. Similarly while criticising some procedures it’s better to use which will
have examples of irony or puns.
· Safe Humour - Use humour that doesn't use the audience as the butt of
the joke. This is not the time to make jokes about audiences so thick their
brains are the consistency of concrete or similar observations.
· Stay Away from gutter - Use humour that doesn't rely on coarse language
or profanity to make its point. Unless of course you are in a bar and the
audience wants to hear it.
· Safe Humour - Use humour that avoids controversial subjects like
religion, politics, race, class or sex.
· Focus on yourself - Using humour effectively often means using yourself
as the subject but in a kindly way, making sure it is relevant to your speech
topic. Don’t overdo it, the audience probably will not like see you putting
yourself down consistently. It helps if you can make the audience starts
identifying with you, creating openness and trust. The audience will be more
likely to listen because you're reflecting or showing them an aspect they know to
be true of themselves, as well as you.
· Integrating Humour – Weave your jokes into a story or anecdote related
to the topic emphasizing your point. Human nature finds it easier to follow the
stories probably because that what we have started hearing from a very young
age. Remember that has to be linked with the topic. However good your
joke/humour is; it will be an hindrance if it not liked with the topic. Drop it
if there is no link.
· Rule of Three – The rule of three works in all areas of presentation.
Three in story telling is a naturally believable number. First usage sets the
tone, Second reinforces the point and by the third point the audience is with
you. But three points or examples have to be interconnected.
The best speech is one which has been delivered.
More you practice the better it is
TIPS FOR PRACTICING A HUMOUROUS SPEECH
· Expression – While telling a story act it, feel
like it is happening again in the 'here and now'. This gives the audience the
'feel' of the situation. They will grasp it and the emotional content more
quickly.
· Practice - Practice, practice, practice and then, practice some more. Record
it. Hear the speech again and again; you will start finding the right pace for
delivering the humour. Remember the speed “slow/fast” combined with expression
is the one which can make a same joke to bombard or fly.
· Gestures - Use simple large gestures. If you are going to incorporate
acting into your story practice using clear decisive gestures rather than a
flurry of small ones.
In the following blog we will look at my Humorous
speech which won the club level competition.
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